What’s In A Name?

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“Proper names are poetry in the raw. Like all poetry they are untranslatable.”    ~W.H. Auden

“A good name is more desirable than great riches; to be esteemed is better than silver or gold.” ~ Proverbs 22:1

 

 

It wasn’t until I moved out of my parent’s house and temporarily migrated to Calgary in 2002 that I began to treasure the significance of my name. My Dad chose the middle name Alexis, after a famous Nicaraguan three-time World Champion boxer. My first name was derived from Omar Khayyám; a Persian philosopher, mathematician, astronomer and poet. The weight and legacy of these names clearly meant something to my Pops. It’s not necessarily the namesake, but the story and intent my Dad had in giving me these names that I value most.

Kelsey and I spent a lot of time conversing, researching, thinking, campaigning, debating and second-guessing what we were going to call our sons. It wasn’t the breezy endeavour we thought it would be. We wanted the names to reflect both their uniqueness while maintaining a connection to the roots of where they come from and a symbol of who they could become.

We’ve come a long way from where we started

But, without further delay, allow me to introduce you to our new ROOMMATES:

MARZUKI FLYNN

We were very serious about the name Sufjan but we felt it was a bit too….Sufjan. So as we sat in the waiting room of the OBGYN looking for the meaning of Sufjan’s name on Kelsey’s iPhone, we stumbled across  a very bizarre name. Immediately it struck a chord with us but quickly let it go because it seemed too odd. After many months of hunting for a name we finally realized that our hearts were set on the weird sounding one. Even when we admitted our love for the name “Marzuki”, we feared what our friends and family would think. It wasn’t until I was standing on the stage of the Paramount Theatre getting ordained that both Kels and I individually, without talking about it at all, felt a sense of peace over the name. We were shocked when we both confessed to each other what we had felt. It seemed very random at first but then realized it had to be providential. It was then when we finally gave in. The strange name also has a beautiful and significant meaning to us that captures this entire journey: “Grace of God”. Flynn is a nod to Kelsey’s Gaelic roots that means “ruddy”. He was born on August 2, 2012 at 10:03 PM weighing 6.5 lbs

ZAVI ROMERO

There is something strong, distinguishing and mysterious about names that begin with the letter “Z”. I didn’t debate for too long when Kelsey suggested of changing the “X” in “Xavi” to “Z”. As a shortened version of “Xavier”, there are 2 meanings to the name: 1. A new house 2. Bright, splendid. We like both. Romero was chosen in honour of martyred Arcbishop Oscar Romero of El Salvador. Of all the names, this is the one we had decided on earliest without much discussion. We both felt it was a great name for him to draw inspiration and encouragement from. It is my hope that Zavi would one day not only be intrigued by the man behind his middle name, but compelled to live a life of love like San Romero. He was born on August 2, 2012 at 10:02 PM weighing 6.6 lbs.

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*If you’d like to look at more of our Pregnancy photos, taken by our friend Melanie Robinson, click here.

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8 thoughts on “What’s In A Name?

  1. @Hilda- Thanks so much! I prefer to think of them as “ruggedly beautiful”. 🙂
    @Kev- Thanks my friend.
    @Julie- I hope so. Still a bit nervous about what they end up thinking about their names. Also, thanks again for the food. It was devoured within 2 hours of delivery! Ha!
    @Ruth- Thanks Ruth! We are happy to be able to share this part of life with you guys!
    @Jen- Thanks! Long live the letter Z!!!
    @AuntieEunice- Thank you! Will do on all fronts! Hopefully see you guys soon!
    @Elizabeth- Thanks so much! It’s a joy to be able to share this special part of our journey.

  2. Congrats on your beautiful new little boys!

    One of my favourite parts of Julie’s baby dedications is that she finds the meanings of the names of the babies and tells us during the ceremony. It always seem so inspirational for that child’s life. I love that you have given us not only the meanings of their names but what the meanings mean to you and Kelsey!

  3. Congratulations Omar and Kelsey! Such beautiful boys to cherish. Please give them some extra hugs from their great Aunty and get some sleep!

  4. Thanks for sharing the thoughts behind the names! I honestly can’t argue at all with the “Z” 🙂
    As for the ” something strong, distinguishing and mysterious about names that begin with the letter “Z” “, yep, I’d have to agree!

    Big hugs from A, J and the Z Clan ( Zackeryah, Zoey and Zephyrin )

  5. This is so great Omar! It’s so nice to see you and Kels put so much heart into their names. Coincidentally Karis’s name also means grace 🙂 “Zavi & Zuki” we love you!!! Congrats again

  6. So happy for all of you. One day the boy will cherish the meaning behind their names just as you now understand and cherish your own name. All the best to you and Kelsey as you begin this chapter of the journey.

  7. Very nice my friend. Beautiful family and us Machados are glad all went well.
    May your lives together as a family be filled with laughter, love, honesty, hope, and guided by God’s Spirit, in all things. (Psalm 37:23-24 -23 The Lord directs the steps of the godly. He delights in every detail of their lives. 24 Though they stumble, they will never fall, for the Lord holds them by the hand.)
    You’re alright…even if you didn’t name them both “Kevin” like I thought you would.

  8. Brilliant!!! Congrats you two!! They are both so beautiful. May you be blessed on this amazing journey. 🙂

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